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Permissible Remarriage 

Adil Salahi, Arab News, 9/12/03

Q. My brother-in-law divorced his wife in rather acrimonious circumstances. Now, a year later, he is making contact with his former wife and she is willing to be reunited with him. In fact, she seems to be contemplating running away with him.

S. Usman, Jeddah

A. It is open to any divorced couple to be remarried if they think they can do better the next time round. The only condition is that it should be a first- or second- time divorce. If it is their third divorce, then they cannot be reunited in marriage, until the woman has married someone else and later became free again. This marriage is different from what is known as halalah, where a sham marriage is arranged. It should be a genuine marriage, intended to last for life.

From what you say, I gather this was the first time that a divorce took place in this family. If so, then remarriage between the former husband and wife is perfectly permissible. However, they need a fresh marriage contract, and the man has to pay new dowry, or mahr, to his wife. Even if he had said the word of divorce three times, when he divorced his wife, it still counts as a single divorce. So, reunion is permissible. There is no need for the woman to run away, or to find excuses such as the divorce being forced on them. What is needed is a fresh marriage contract, which should be done in a proper manner, just like any other marriage contract.

Islamic Greeting

Q. When two Muslims meet and greet each other, should they shake hands as well? Is that part of Islamic greeting?

A. Nazamuddin, Riyadh

A. Shaking hands is part of a welcome and friendly greeting in many cultures. While there are some Hadiths to show that it is encouraged, there is no obligation or requirement to shake hands when we greet our brothers and friends on meeting them. In such matters, social and cultural norms dictate people’s behavior.

 



 

 
Earth, a planet hungry for peace

 

The Israeli apartheid (security) wall around Palestinian population centers (Ran Cohen, pmc, 5/24/03).
The Israeli apartheid (security) wall around Palestinian population centers in the West Bank (Ran Cohen, pmc, 5/24/03).

 

 

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